Introduction
Cyberbullying is a type of bullying that occurs on digital devices such as mobile phones, computers, and tablets. Cyberbullying can be done via SMS, text, and apps, or online in social media, forums or games where people can view, participate in or share content. Cyberbullying includes sending, posting, or sharing negative, harmful, false, or despicable content about others. It may include sharing personal or private information about others, which can lead to embarrassment or humiliation. Some cyberbullying goes beyond illegal or criminal acts.
The most common places for cyberbullying are:
-Social media such as Facebook, Instagram, Snapchat and Twitter
-SMS
-Instant messaging (via the device, email provider services, apps and social media messaging features)
Own Experience
When I was 14 years old, I encountered cyberbullying. Everything happened too suddenly, it seemed like it started without a reason. The bully is my good friend. I asked why, but they made me think about what I did. After every move, they were magnified and pointed. I posted a status on social media and immediately saw that they criticized me. When I talked about it to others, they made me not to be suspicious. They also made me reflect on whether I did something wrong to offend others. I’ve been wondering if I did something wrong. I even once wondered if I shouldn’t exist, so I won’t be told by others. I’m self-harm because I think if I die, things will be solved and they will feel guilty. Happily, this cyberbullying ended after a year. But unfortunately, I have become more sensitive and humbled ever since.
Tips to overcome
For kids and teens
We know it’s not your fault. What people call “bullying” is sometimes an argument between two people. However, if someone is cruel to you repeatedly, it is bullying and you cannot blame yourself. No one deserves cruel treatment.
(a) Do not respond or retaliate. Sometimes the response is exactly what the attacker is looking for because they think it gives them control over you and you don’t want to empower the bully. As for revenge, returning to the bully makes you a person-and turns a mean behavior into a chain reaction. If you can, get out of the situation. If you can’t, humor can sometimes disarm or distract people.
(b) Save the evidence. The only good news about bullying online or over the phone is that it can often be captured, saved, and displayed to someone who can help. You can save the evidence in case something escalates.
(c) Tell the other person to stop. It’s entirely up to you if you feel completely uncomfortable, don’t do it because you need to clearly state your position so that you no longer support this treatment. You may need to practice with someone you trust, such as a parent or good friend, in advance.
(d) Ask for help-especially if it does help you. You worth the backup. Seeing if anyone can listen can help you deal with what is happening and work through it-friends, relatives or adults you trust.
If someone you know is bullied, take action. Just being on standby will increase the power of the aggressor and will not help. The best thing you can do is stop bullying by taking a stand against it. If you can’t stop it, support the bully. If the person is a friend, you can listen and see how to help. Consider together whether bullying should be reported. If you are not yet friends, even politeness can help alleviate pain. At the very least, don’t send a meaningful message, and don’t help the bully positively.
In the end, language is the most hurtful weapon. In the future, I hope everyone can think twice before speaking, because if you inadvertently, it may cause great harm to others. I also want to tell people who are being bullied that suicide does not solve anything. Only your parents will be sad and guilty. Those who bully you will only feel guilty for a while, and they will forget you later.
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nice Blog！
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Good information!
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Well done
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support your point！
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good
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Good
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good information
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good information
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pretty!
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great
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thanks for sharing
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Well done! Clear information and pretty illustrations!
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Thanks for sharing!
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This is a good blog and I am supporting your point.
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Nice blog
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Great job
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I’m self harm ( grammatical error )
Should be ” I’m harming myself ”
Or “commit self harm”
Pls let others check also , I could be wrong
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true to the touch
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Structure presented well and the points outlined above distinctly
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Great post! And thank you for spreading awareness. Im so sorry you were cyberbullied, Tan. I’ve been there and It’s hard enough for an adult to handle but I can.only imagine what it does to a 14 year old.
Will be Reblogged on Chateau Cherie
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